Prevent Child Abuse Rowan hosts appreciation brunch

Published 12:00 am Sunday, April 19, 2015

By Susan Shinn

For the Salisbury Post

The staff of Prevent Child Abuse Rowan said “thank you” on Friday morning to all who work with children in need, “because most of these jobs are thankless jobs,” said Executive Director Beth Moore.

About 100 members of local enforcement, partner agencies, board members, elected officials and donors attended a brunch at Rowan Museum.

We want to make sure that the people know they’re appreciated,” Moore said.

April is National Child Abuse Prevention Month. Along with the brunch, the local organization has scheduled two other events: a free event for families from 4-6 p.m. Tuesday, April 21, at Bounce City, 120 N. Church St., and a Spin to End fundraiser from 8:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Saturday, April 25, at The Forum, 2318 S. Main St. Cost is $25 per rider and $100 per team.

Moore said that the result of having more awareness surrounding the prevention of child abuse is that the agency’s case load increases. In 2013, the agency worked 113 cases. In 2014, that number increased to 192, and so far this year, the agency has worked 68 cases.

We are growing,” Moore noted.

The agency’s staff is also growing. Along with Moore, the staff includes Matt Freeze, director of development; Erin Messmer, mental health clinician; Melissa Shue, prevention and education coordinator; Cassandra Rankin, family services coordinator, and Icela Trujillo, family advocate. Moore said that because Trujillo is bilingual, she often works with Hispanic families.

A new Speak Up and Be Safe program for first- and fifth-graders has produced an “overwhelming and positive response,” Moore said. “We do a lot of reactive work. Our goal this year is to get ahead of abuse before it starts.”

The morning’s keynote speaker was Shawnda Drummond, special agent for the FBI who specializes in children prostitution cases and child pornography cases.

Drummond said that the FBI taught her how to interrogate suspects, but not how to interview child. That’s where child advocacy centers such as the Terrie Hess House — where Prevent Child Abuse Rowan is housed — come in.

The first time she went to a child advocacy center, she said, she was surprised at how much it looked like a house. An investigator asked the child non-leading questions, and received full disclosure in a short amount of time, Drummond said. “I was blown away. I had never seen anything like that.”

Child advocacy centers, she said, are victim-centered and child-centered.

Drummond shared a quote from Nelson Mandela: “There can be no keener revelation of a society’s soul than the way in which it treats its children.”

This is what is exemplified in the child advocacy centers,” she said.

Drummond talked about one case in which a 14-year-old girl was kidnapped from Morganton, taken to Charlotte, and sold into prostitution.

When law enforcement found her, she was taken to a child advocacy center, Drummond said. “In one stop, she was holistically taken care of.”

It typically takes about 40 minutes to interview a child, Drummond noted. “In less than 40 minutes, they disclose the worst thing that will happen in their entire lives.”

The reason, she said, is because child advocacy centers put the victim first. The setting is typically a beautiful room, a safe place. Center staff also treat a child’s family. “Many times, adults have taken trust away. We give something to children and do no expect anything in return.”

Child advocacy centers are a better choice to conduct interviews than police departments, schools, the FBI office or the hotel where a crime took place, Drummond said. “Our alternatives are not good alternatives. The best place is a child advocacy center.”

Prevent Child Abuse Rowan also used the event to present its annual awards. F&M Bank received an award for its community support. The President’s Award was given to Thomas and Jeanie Eller, Fred and Alice Stanback, and Tom and Larry Hess of Blast-It-All. Detective Sara Benfield of the Rowan County Sheriff’s Office received the Kathleen Russo Friend of a Child Award.

Our mission is to catch the bad guy,” Sheriff Kevin Auten said afterward. “Sometimes, we forget about the sensitive nature of children.”

The partnership between law enforcement and Prevent Child Abuse Rowan is critical, Auten said. “The goal is to help children maintain a normal, healthy life as they move forward. There are certain things in law enforcement that cripple us. Seeing children who are in a bad situation is tough.”

For more information on Spin to End, visit or call 704-633-6638.

And please save the date for Prevent Child Abuse Rowan’s inaugural corn hole tournament, Corn for the Kids, set for Sept. 19 at the Trolley Barn.

For more information about Prevent Child Abuse Rowan, call 704-639-1700 or visit

Freelance writer Susan Shinn lives in Salisbury.