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Love offering: Event raises $3,000 for Scott Young, who is awaiting a new heart

Love offering

Scott Young

Scott Young

By Susan Shinn

For the Salisbury Post

If you’ve ever eaten Debbie Suggs’ meals, you know that extra special ingredient she always adds: love.

Debbie and her family served up plates full and pots full of love Sunday — cleverly disguised as chicken and dumplings — for a dinner to benefit Scott Young. West Rowan’s longtime football coach is awaiting a new heart, and he and his family — extended family included — are members of Charity Baptist Tabernacle, which hosted the Sunday event.

Scott was unable to attend the meal, but his mom, Betty, was on hand, as well as her three sisters and brother, along with a host of Scott’s cousins and friends.

Members of the congregation had set up seating for 175 in the fellowship hall of the Stokes Ferry Road church, but well over 200 folks were fed, many of whom filled to-go boxes.

“About 19 or 20 people came by and made a donation after church but didn’t eat,” said Garret Frick, Debbie’s son-in-law, who welcomed diners while wife Stacy piled donations of cash and checks in a large foil pan nearby.

By meal’s end, more than $3,000 had been raised.

Garret said that most of the crowd was made up of church members, but the local community was represented, too. Members loaded a set of long tables with delicious desserts, quite a popular stop during mealtime.

Phyllis Miller helped herself to seconds on chicken and dumplings — most diners did the same — while fixing a to-go plate for husband Hayden. Debbie rounded out the day’s menu with green beans and corn, and red slaw.

Betty also filled a to-go box for her husband, Larry, who’s also been facing health challenges of late.

“I have come through this with God’s help,” Betty said. “I’m just so overwhelmed how people have shown their love and how this church has opened its doors.”

Scott came home Friday, his mom said, and had hoped to come to the meal.

“He’s still pretty weak, but he’s doing well,” she said.

Betty’s three sisters, Nina Howard, Ruth Small and Sherrill Kesler all attended, as did her brother, Jack Phillips.

Ed and Sandy Bowles also attended. Ed coached at East Rowan for 28 years — he coached brothers Scott and Mark Young — and now helps coach the defensive line at West. Mark is a teacher at West Rowan Middle School.

“I’m closer to Scott than I am to my own family,” Ed said. “I’ve coached with him, and I know what kind of a man he is.”

What kind?

Ed paused for a long time, and tears welled in his eyes.

“He’s sincere. He’s dedicated to his family, to his job, and to his community — whoever he is working with. He will help anybody in any way possible.”

Jay Wood is a West senior. Scott and his wife bought their house from Wood’s family.

“We’ve been together for a long time,” said Jay, who serves as ball boy coach. “There’s a reason Scott is one of the greatest football coaches in Rowan County. He’s tough, but everybody wants to play with him.”

Debbie’s daughter and son-in-law are members of the congregation, and she wanted to help as soon as she heard about Scott.

“I knew his relatives were here,” she said. “I told Stacy, ‘Call the preacher and let’s do a fundraiser. We put it together in one week. I think we did pretty good to be a country church.”

Chris Roseman and his girlfriend came to eat after attending church at First Baptist. Chris played football for Scott, graduating from West in 2004.

“He was stern, but he was good,” Chris said. “He wanted you to be the best you could. He had a desire to win.”

A few minutes later, he remembered something Scott always told him: There are no excuses in football. Excuses are for losers.

“I remember that every time I make an excuse for something, said Chris, who allowed that sometimes in life, things do happen. “But there are no excuses on the football field.”

Fair enough.

The meal was a win-win situation for Theresa Pierce, who taught with Scott’s wife, Diane, at Granite Quarry Elementary School.

“I love Diane, and I love Debbie Suggs,” Theresa said. “She does this kind of thing all the time. She’s like a local philanthropist. Everywhere I go, I see her looking out for people.”

On Sunday, folks looked out for Scott.

He told his mom, “I just can’t believe how good people are.”

Freelance writer Susan Shinn lives in Salisbury.



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