Laura on Life: Protecting her baby from the barbarians
My baby is only one week old. In fact, it only has a few hundred miles on it. When we drove it off the lot, the odometer said “1”. It’s still brand-spanking new.
I’m so ecstatic to own a car that has no finger prints or nose prints on the back windows and no footprints on the windshield. It has clean cubbyholes with no gum or used Kleenex stuffed in them. The cup holders have nary a drop of some sugary gooey stuff left over from fast-food cup leakage.
There are no bits of popcorn, or candy wrappers, or pieces of crayon, or Legos, or Polly Pocket parts hiding in the crevices between the seats. In fact, it’s perfectly clean (hallelujah!) and I’ve been able to keep my baby that way for a full week with constant vigilance.
“You don’t need to take the straw wrapper in the car with you.”
“But, Mom, I want to play with it!”
“No, you don’t. You want to stuff it into some nook or cranny where you can see it, but you can’t get it out!”
Is it any wonder, then, that when my husband decided to have a “Boy’s Night Out” with two of my boys, my brother, and my immaculately clean car, I balked.
Don’t get me wrong. I would never stop my husband from going somewhere he wanted to go. I just didn’t want him to take my baby. Take a car that already had gum in the door handles and footprints on the windshield. Between him and my brother, they had other options.
I mean, they’re going to the races for Pete’s sake! A bastion of male bonding over sloppy food, loud, greasy engines, and dusty bleachers, punctuated by the sound of testosterone-induced Hoo-ah!’s after each collision. A place where it is almost mandatory to spill a 32 oz. drink on one’s jeans and wipe it off with a corn dog wrapper.
My youngest boy is six years old and loves cars. It would not be humane to leave him home with me, but unfortunately he cannot hold his liquids.
Thirty-two ounces in his bladder is a recipe for disaster because my baby has cloth seats and my husband has an unreasonable aversion to pulling to the side of the road for little boy pee elimination.
“We’re almost home, buddy. Can you hold it for another hour?”
Plus, my husband is directionally challenged. If he doesn’t bring his GPS navigator with him, then there will be at least two missed turns, which always involve pounding on the steering wheel to invoke the direction gods, and a U-turn at 90 miles an hour. The 32 oz. drink sitting in the cup holder, if it hasn’t done so already, will bite the dust at this point.
If he brings his GPS, that will involve slobbering on the suction cup so that it will stick to the windshield, and which, when removed will leave a permanent spit-circle on my windshield that will not be removed until the day the car is sold.
This would also be the maiden voyage of our new in-the-headrest DVD player we had installed for our children’s entertainment and their continued existence. This means that my husband, who is a hands-on kind of instructor, will be fiddling with it, while he’s driving, until either it works or he crashes whichever comes first. Unfortunately, I am not a gambling kind of girl.
My car is so new it doesn’t even have a trash bin in it yet. Not that a bunch of “boys” on a joy-ride to the races would ever consider using one.
So, no, I just can’t do it. It’s too new. It’s too clean. It’s too wonderful.
Don’t worry, baby, I won’t let them hurt you.
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