Meaning of true friendship

I recently had one of the most splendid dinners that I’ve had in my 91 years on this Earth.

My wife was going to be in Charleston for three weeks, caring for a sick family member, and she didn’t feel comfortable driving all the way down there, so my stepson Dennis drove her car down there, and he was brought back in another vehicle by his great friend Mike, who had followed.

Dennis and Mike have been friends for 44 years (they were 12 years old when they met in elementary school). Still, for Mike to give of his time in this way was impressive. What a loyal friend!

Meanwhile, family and friends, including Dennis, were watching out for yours truly, taking turns bringing me meals. When it was Dennis’ turn on a Tuesday night, we went to Il Colosseo restaurant and Mike joined us.

Dennis said, “Order anything you want, Joe, this is your night out with the boys!”

What a great feeling that was, as it had been years since I was “out with the boys.”

I sat there, sipping my wine, listening, while they talked back and forth. It was most pleasurable, watching them enjoy each other’s company so much.

When we got home, Dennis did a chore for me and that gave me a chance to talk to Mike.

I said to Mike, “I had a friend once that I thought was as tight as you and Dennis, but he got into the big money and now, he doesn’t know me.”

Mike said, “What does money have to do with it?”

Thus, the meaning of true friendship. Money, nor distances, nor life’s hardships can keep true friendship from flourishing — and lasting a lifetime.

 — Joseph E. Riley

Salisbury

 

A very honest person

On Monday, I lost my checkbook. It was found at the Granite Quarry ATM and turned in to the bank. I do not know your name, but thank you for being so honest.

— Bob Fritzsche

Granite Quarry