Girls Nite Out Gals give to Christmas Happiness in memory, honor of friends

Published 12:00 am Wednesday, November 28, 2018

SALISBURY — Since they were in elementary school, a group of local women have been sharing life together. In the past several years, that have eaten dinner together once a month.

They call themselves the Girls Nite Out Gals. It’s a group of about eight women nearing their 70s. The women lost one of their own in 2014. Bettie Harrington Fesperman, who survived lung cancer, died in a traffic crash.

“We have always donated in her memory because it was very important to her to make a donation every year. We miss her so much,” said Kay Farmer-Young.

The women have been collecting donations since 2014 because they wanted to continue what Bettie had always done — give to the Christmas Happiness Fund.

Christmas Happiness supports local children who may not receive gifts for Christmas. The donations are contributed by the community, collected at the Salisbury Post and distributed by the Salvation Army of Rowan County.

“She was adamant about giving, and we decided to take that up. She gave to it in honor of her grandchildren,” Farmer-Young said.

The women also give in honor of their friend Donna Furr, who beat breast cancer.

The women all grew up in the China Grove-Kannapolis area. They all attended the same South Rowan schools and have stayed connected through the years.

“Whatever I get, I mail it in,” Farmer-Young said.

Contributions may be delivered to the Salisbury Post, 131 W. Innes St., between 8 a.m. and 5 p.m. weekdays or mailed to Salisbury Post Christmas Happiness Fund, P.O. Box 4639, Salisbury, NC 28145-4639.

Make checks payable to Christmas Happiness Fund and indicate how you want your donation listed.

Today’s contributions are:

In memory of my “Lil Darlin” by David Alexander, $250
In memory of John and Betty Thompson by their children, $100
In memory of Dr. John R. Crawford by Mike Thompson, $100
In memory of our giving parents on this giving Tuesday by Vasco and Edna Singley and Olt and Edna Pinkston by Ott and Julie Pinkston, $100
In honor of our cancer survivor friend, Donna Burr; we love you — “Girls Nite Out Gals,” $100
In loving memory of our dear friend, Bettie Harrington Fesperman; missing you and loving you forever by “Girls Nite Out Gals,” $100
In memory of Betty Alexander, who always supported the Christmas Happiness Fund as well as many other causes, by Ralph and Helen Brown, $100
Daily total: $850
Running total: $2,350
Contact reporter Shavonne Walker at 704-797-4253.