P.H. Satterwhite knew exactly who gave him that 1899 dime for his 100th birthday.His cousin, Lillian Rhoney of Rutherford College.
And she made a little speech doing it, pointing
out that the dime and P.H. were the same age.
But the silver dollar dated 1899? Now that was
something else. Someone must have slipped that in his pocket without saying a word when he
wasnt looking.
Or maybe it was when he wasnt listening
closely enough. Maybe someone said, Im giving you a little something for your
birthday, and he just didnt hear it. After all, he does wear hearing aids.
But, hey, whats wrong with wearing hearing
aids when youre 100 years old? They sure helped him hear about everything else that
went on during a birthday celebration that lasted three days.
Why, friends and relatives of Rowan Countys
longtime farm agent 1942 to 1962 and the oldest member of the N.C.
Association of County Agricultural Agents had three parties.
First, his friends at Trinity Oaks, where
hes been living for several years, gave him a reception out there and made a
donation to Cleveland United Methodist Church in his honor.
And then Friday night the family honored him at a
cookout at his home in Cleveland. Hes not living there, a friend is, but it will
always be home to Mr. Satterwhite. All three of his children, Lucy Gibson and Thomas
Satterwhite of Cleveland and Rosa Lee Slate of Winston-Salem, were there with all the
grandchildren and great-grandchildren who could get there. They ate hamburgers and hot
dogs and birthday cake. And he got two books a history of the past 100 years and one
written by people 100 years old or older, so everybody knows what hes doing now.
Hes reading those books, of course.
Thats what he does most of the time now.
But the present that tickled him most was one a
great-grandson, Avery Garrison of Atlanta, gave him. Avery compiled a timeline of all the
major events of the past 100 years and put it in a loose leaf binder, and Grandpop
couldnt wait to get at it. So he just leafed through it then and there, looking at
all the things that happened in his 100 years.
Of course, he doesnt remember the Wright
brothers first flight on Dec. 17, 1903. He wasnt quite 4 years old yet. He likes to
tell people he was born before the first plane flew but his only son, Thomas, grew up to
be an Air Force pilot who logged 10,200 hours in seven different planes.
And he had such a good time talking and
remembering and got so tired that he almost slept through his big party at Cleveland
United Methodist Church on Saturday afternoon. Now that would have been a real shame. Why,
there were at least 125 people there, and for a man whos outlived most of his
friends, well, it says something about what kind of friend he was.
But his daughter, Rosa Lee, woke him up, and if
they hadnt told, probably nobody would have noticed they were a few minutes late.
And he let her push him into the church in his wheelchair.
He can get around , says his grandson
Steves wife, Robin, but its hard for him.
Not so hard that hes ready to leave his
apartment yet. Navigating with his walker, he fixes his own breakfast every morning and
doesnt need help to take his shower.
Were trying to talk him into going
over to the assisted living area at the North Carolina Lutheran Home where Trinity Oaks is
located, Robin says, but hes not ready to give in yet. He can
still do for himself and tell a joke at a party.
He told the joke Friday night, which was really
his birthday, when someone said hed visited all the Rowan County farms and never
minded giving advice, so how about a little advice on how to live to 100?
Well, he said, hed heard about this man who
went to see a doctor about that.
Doctor, the man said, I
dont drink, I dont smoke and I dont run around. Will I live to be a
hundred?
No, the doctor said, but it will
seem like it.
Of course, that got the biggest laugh of the
night.
But maybe the biggest hits were those two cards
David Fleming, a longtime family friend, brought from Raleigh. One was signed by Michael
OCain, head football coach at North Carolina State, and the other was signed by the
head basketball coach, Herb Sendek.
But he didnt get on the Today
show with Willard Scott.
The show gets about 100 requests a week for
100-year-olds to be recognized, and he can only use six on Tuesdays and six on Thursdays.
They choose as many men as they can, Robin says, because not as many men as women make it
to 100, but everybody whose name is sent gets a personal letter.
Grandpop hasnt got his yet, she
adds, but he will and hell think thats wonderful just as he thinks its
wonderful that her daughters, Elizabeth, 5, and Emily, 4, call him Greatpop.
They heard us say, This is
Great-Grandpop, she says, and they shortened it to something
better.
Only a Greatpop could still remember hearing both
his grandfathers telling stories about being in the Civil War and tell his own stories
about walking three miles to school and never missing a day and about teaching a bright
young pupil named Jim Graham at Cleveland School in the 30s and getting electricity
to Rowan County farmers in the 40s.
He still believes electricity is the most amazing
thing hes seen in his 100 years. Ironically, he and his wife were at an agricultural
convention in New York City during its blackout. That killed the fine banquet they were
supposed to attend, so they shared one apple in their dark hotel room and never forgot it.
And all those memories were wonderful on his 100th
birthday. But he partied all weekend, and when the festivities were over, he was tired.
So the conclusion was inevitable.
If we want him to have another
birthday, they told each other, we need to let him get some rest.