A common thread ran through the lives of the ancestral scholars Dr. Wayne Dyer writes
about in his new book.None of them
died with their music still in them, he says. They lived good lives of great
passion.
When he picked 60 philosophers, artists, writers
and religious figures to quote among them Jesus, Shakespeare, Michelangelo, Buddha,
Martin Luther King Jr. and Mother Teresa he devoted one day to each.
In the mornings, he got up early and spent eight
hours reading about their lives. Then he would go for a long walk on the beach and
contemplate what he had read.
The afternoons were spent reading or studying
their works.
And at night, after an hour of meditation, he
would sit down with a photograph, drawing or sculpture of the person and ask, What
is it that you would say to us today who are still here with this writing or this
selection that I have chosen of yours?
The words came forth, and in 60 days, Wisdom
of the Ages was written.
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Dyer, who talked about his
life and career in a recent telephone interview from Maui, says he is very proud of the
book. Its a book that almost wrote itself, he says. I still feel
very much connected to all these people.
As a teacher, Dyer quoted many of the scholars he
wrote about in his lectures. My students used to always ask, What does what
somebody said a hundred years ago have to do with me?
Everything, according to Dyer.
I feel that everybody who has ever been here
before has a great message to leave behind, he says. Their very lives affect
all of us, and I think thats something each of us has to learn and grow from
practicing what it is they have to offer.
Dyer, who is 59, says he doesnt have a
favorite passage in the book. Its like asking me which of my children are my
favorites, he says, and he has eight. They all have something very
powerful.
One of the Native Americans featured, Oren Lyons,
is quoted as saying his people would think seven generations ahead when making decisions.
The passage, in part, says:
When we walk upon Mother Earth, we always
plant our feet carefully because we know the faces of our future generations are looking
up at us from beneath the ground. We never forget them.
We dont own this earth, Dyer
says. We are borrowing it from those who are yet to come.
What he would most like readers to get out of
Wisdom of the Ages, he says, is a sense of connection with all of mankind, not
only in the present, but those who lived here before and those who are yet to come.
We are breathing the very same air, he
says.
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Wisdom of the Ages
is Dyers 17th book. His first, Your Erroneous Zones, published in 1976
when he was 35, was the top seller for that decade. Six book clubs chose it as a featured
selection, and it stayed on the New York Times Bestseller List for 27 months.
The books success made Dyer a media star. He
has appeared on every major television talk show, including The Tonight Show,
The Today Show, Donahue and Oprah, as well as radio
talk shows all over the United States and other countries.
Translated into 41 languages, Your Erroneous
Zones showed readers how their own thinking hindered their success in life and
offered guidelines on controlling feelings and reactions.
Some credit Dyer with starting the self-help
movement that is big business today. Therapists recommended his books, and readers learned
to take responsibility for their own lives.
Dyer became a motivational speaker, holding
thousands of workshops, including some for heads of states, and releasing hundreds of
self-motivational tapes through the years.
The book titles that followed spoke of
self-responsibility and empowerment: Pulling Your Own Strings, The
Skys the Limit, Staying on the Path, What Do You Really Want
for Your Children, Youll See It When You Believe It, Real
Magic, Your Sacred Self and Manifest Your Destiny.
Many of the lessons he teaches were learned the
hard way.
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Wayne Dyer was abandoned by
his father shortly after his birth. An abusive alcoholic, his father did time in prison
and never paid any support or called or visited him.
His mother worked as a candy girl, making $17 a
week, and couldnt support Wayne or his two brothers, each born a year apart.
Dyer spent the first 10 years of his life in an
orphanage and a series of foster homes. It was one of the greatest learning
experiences of my life, he says.
After that, his mother remarried, and she and her
new husband regained custody of her sons. But the new family was flawed.
Their stepfather was an alcoholic, he says,
and living with an alcoholic was a great learning experience, as well.
Hard work was a way of life for Dyer. Starting at
age 8, he delivered newspapers, cut grass and bagged groceries. I worked for
everything I ever had, he says.
An avid reader, Dyer had read 770 books by age 17.
His favorite authors included Henry David Thoreau, whose philosophies Dyer credits with
turning him into a nonconformist.
Dyer joined the Navy at 18, serving four years
before earning his undergraduate degree and doctorate in counseling and psychology from
Wayne State University and the University of Michigan.
He taught at many levels from high school through
graduate study at St. Johns University in New York. His teaching skills made for a
smooth transition from the classroom to teaching thousands at motivational seminars.
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Dyer, who is scheduled to
speak in Greensboro on Sept. 12, says he conducts his seminars the same way he wrote
Wisdom of the Ages.
I get quiet, he says, I
meditate, and I come out and speak without notes for three or four hours.
His goal for the seminars, Dyer says, is to try to
get people to become aware of their unlimited potential, to recognize their own
greatness, to leave being inspired to be all they can be and to not die with their music
still in them.
Dyer says he believes we all came to earth with a
heroic mission.
I think our work is placed in our hearts at
the moment of our births or even our conceptions, he says.
Reaching the point where you can fulfill that
mission, even if its music other people dont like, is what Dyer
hopes to help people do.
The true test of mortality, he says, may be to not
only know what youre here for but to follow your path without concern for the
approval of others and without interfering with others right to follow their own
paths.
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Dyer has already picked out a
title for his 18th book, Theres a Spiritual Solution to Every Problem.
Despite the technology we have today, Dyer says,
weve got people killing each other, and weve got wars all over the
planet.
All our problems can be solved, he says, by
recognizing our connectedness and going to the inner quiet place within ourselves.
I want to write about that, he says.
Dyers life parallels the transition of his
books from the self-help genre to spiritual enlightenment.
Thats where I am today, he says.
Ive sort of watched myself write and experience these things, and Ive
always been very public about what Im going through in my own life.
Psychologist Carl Jung said people go through four
stages in their lives, Dyer says, beginning with the athlete, the time when the focus is
primarily on the body, its strength and beauty and abilities.
The second stage is the warrior, when we set out
to conquer and defeat and collect and do as much as we can.
The third, Dyer says, is what Jung called the
statesman stage, the time when we stop questioning whats in it for us and start
asking what we can do for others. How can we serve?
And the fourth stage is the spirit, when you
recognize that you are not your body, not what other people think of you.
Youre in this world, Dyer says,
as they say in the New Testament, but youre not of this world.
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Even with his success as an
author and motivational speaker, Dyer says his children are what he is most proud of.
I think theyre on their own
paths, he says. I just try to keep them out of harms way and love them
unconditionally.
Dyers eight children range in age from 9 to
32. Their interests are varied, he says. One, for example, wants to sing while another
wants to ride horses. Some want to go to college, and some think its a waste of
time.
Some of them really like what I do, he
says. Some think its a lot of nonsense.
Dyer, his wife and children live in South Florida,
but spend their summers in Maui. Because of the large family, he has to go away to write.
Ill just immerse myself in the writing
24 hours a day, he says. I cant even write a letter at home.
Theres a lot of people.
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An avid runner, Dyer gets up
before dawn and runs eight miles a day. Its a regimen he has followed for the last
13 years.
Running is just a way of life for me,
he says.
So is the celebrity, and it means very little to
Dyer. He responds to praise for his work the same way he responds to criticism.
Its just somebody elses
opinion, he says. I always tell them, Youre probably right,
even if they tell me Im a jerk.
As for how he would like to be remembered, Dyer
says it doesnt really matter.
Its just not important to me, he
says. I dont think Im a human being having a spiritual experience.
Im a divine being.
We all are.
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