Editorial: Don't make them mentor
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Friday, May 30, 2008 3:00 AM
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It would be a great thing if every single college student in Salisbury volunteered to mentor a public school student. But forcing college students to do so as a requirement for graduation isn't the best way to help fill the need for more youth mentors or nurture the spirit of public service.
State Sen. Tony Rand, D-Cumberland, has proposed making the mentoring service a requirement for all public and private college students in the state. The bill would require any student seeking a bachelor's degree to spend 20 hours per semester mentoring and tutoring a public school-age child.
First off, let's acknowledge we have a large need for mentors in this community, and college students are excellent candidates to help children who can benefit from the guidance and attention of young adult role models. In fact, Mayor Susan Kluttz and other city leaders made precisely that plea a few months ago in urging local college students to get involved as mentors as part of Salisbury's ongoing anti-gang initiative. Those that coordinate mentoring services, such as the Times 2 Mentoring Program run by the Rowan Youth Services Bureau, also would love to have more college students sign up.
Rand is right when he says that college students may be particularly qualified to serve as mentors, and his heart is certainly in the right place in wanting to establish the proposed community service program in memory of Eve Carson and Abhijit Mahata, two college students who were shot to death in separate incidents earlier this year. The violent deaths of Carson, the student body president at UNC-Chapel Hill, and Mahta, a Duke University graduate student, underscored the problem of youth violence and the societal factors that help stack the odds against marginalized adolescents.
But the fact that there's a need for mentors and that college students could help fill that need doesn't mean a coercive requirement is the best way to proceed. It assumes that every student is equally suited for mentoring, which isn't the case, and it also assumes that every student is equally able to make the time commitment necessary, regardless of whether that student may be holding down a full- or even part-time job, while also juggling other responsibilities.
Some colleges already have public service requirements, but those that do usually offer students a range of options to fulfill them. By all means, let's encourage college students to get involved in community service projects, whether it's mentoring young people, assisting senior citizens or some other worthwhile endeavor. Young people who are fortunate enough to benefit from a college education should be mindful of helping others who may not be as fortunate. But rather than institutionalizing such a requirement statewide, let's leave it up to individual colleges and their students to determine what works best for them. Meanwhile, if any local college students are interested in serving as youth mentors, groups such as Times 2 or Communities in the Schools are eager to hear from you.
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marla
mentoring : Thursday, June 05, 2008 10:48 AM
OH YEAH< I like that BETTER IDEA, let the state senators do it as part of their job requirement, they dont' do anything anyway..........money for free.......GOOD IDEA
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Brendan Davidson, Salisbury
Wait Just a Minute! : Tuesday, June 03, 2008 8:45 AM
Mentoring is a great idea. The problem is like some have said, many, if not most, of our college students are not up to it. But lost in this is the real question: WHY? Why are our college graduates NOT ready for it? They should be. It is a true failure of our college systems to not prepare our citizens to do this. They have gotten a lot of money from the students, their families and us, the taxpayers, and they can't train people to be mentors?!!! Mentoring/teaching SHOULD be required (with appropriate screenings of course) for graduation, definitely for higher level degrees (Masters, Doctorates, etc.). I wouldn't require it for just 2 year degrees, only 4 yr or higher. Don't jump on the legislators for requiring this. Graduating from college shouldn't be easy and should definitely require graduates to give back to the community the wisdom and expertise they've gained. If they can't or won't then their degrees are not, nor should not be, worth anything.
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Gray Rinehart
Terrible Idea to Legislate Charity : Monday, June 02, 2008 3:29 PM
As posted on my own "Ghost Writer" blog (http://www.graymanwrites.com/forums/blog.php?b=81), this idea should be shouted down from the rooftops of every dormitory to the floor of the legislature.
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Michael Basinger
College students mentoring : Saturday, May 31, 2008 10:59 AM
This is absurd! The requirements to graduate college (not to mention high school) are already so strenious that it almost takes an act of God to graduate from either. It is not college students place to mentor...it's the parents that need to sit down with their children, spend quality time, help with their homework and teach them some morals and values (if they know themselves what morals and values are). It is past time to stop pointing fingers at community and government for youth downfalls. It starts at home. As I am visiting Mexico and have had the opportunity to be with families in their homes, I have witnessed something that I haven't seen since I was a child. Families sit and eat every meal together, parents actually helping their children with homework and spending quality time together and actually teaching culture and moral values. This was like ritual for me and people my age when I was growing up and the United States in general has gotten so far away from that...it's just not funny anymore! Citizens of the U.S. need to do some reevaluating and wake up to what is really going on, you are the demise of your own children... not everyone else. I would ask Mrs. Dole when the last time she took time to mentor a child was? She's been too busy on her anti-immigration platform to do much else (and thats not going so well for her either). Assigning jobs (to get illegals out of the country) to county and city officials that should be left to the federal government is no more right than parents pointing fingers at the community for failing their kids! The only difference is that she's wasting tax payers money (just her being in office has been a waste of money), parents are wasting their childrens lives and missing out on vital parts of their lives! Mrs. Kluttz, why don't you start a mentoring program in Salisbury and spend the taxpayers money there instead of blowing it on "beautification projects" in areas of town that are about as useful as a dead mule, and wasting time and money arguing about annexing parts of the county that you really can't afford to annex in the first place. All I have left to say is that as a U.S. and Rowan County citizen, I see an enormous need for government to get back to what they were put in place to do instead of trying to inflict their own "moral values" on us and parents to step back and look at how you are raising your child....you had them, take responsibility for them!
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A Better Idea : Saturday, May 31, 2008 9:26 AM
Why don't we make it a state law that all members of the State Senate are required to mentor young criminals? Then they would really understand the problem and perhaps they could come up with some real answers. Rand has been in Raleigh far too long. The voters should recall him and put someone with good common sense in office.
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