Sponsored by: Ben Mynatt Nissan | Archive Search
Lifestyle

Gail Kimball column: Mama and the red bird

E-mail to a friend



by Gail Kimball

for the Salisbury Post

About 5:30 on the morning Mama died, an awe-inspiring, amazing, and remarkable thing happened. Just as my sister Pattie and I noted a worsening of Mama's condition, we heard a noise - tapping?...on her hospital window.

The tap, tap, tap, tap, tap was insistent and came repeatedly. Since Mama's admission late the previous evening, the blinds had been closed, so we had no idea what lay outside her third-story window.

Pattie and I talked, held Mama's hands and shared our love as we felt death was near. However, the window tapping was so persistent that we decided to investigate.

Pattie raised the blind, and there on the window ledge sat a little red bird.

It was small, energetic, and dancing—pacing. It was using its beak to frequently tap on the window, glancing at us. Then, as if assured of our attention, it moved back and forth, up and down the ledge. It flew a few feet away from the window, then back to resume tapping.

Over and over our little red bird brought us comfort, joy, peace, pleasure, and inspiration.

As he flew away, Pattie and I looked at each other with tears in our eyes, and felt a deep understanding of the message of hope delivered by our little red bird. But afterward, we were unable to get Mama to respond to her name.

We took great comfort in the presence of the red bird that morning. And since Mama's death, we feel blessed in the memory of its visit.

Since her death four years ago, we have been graced with the sudden appearance of a red bird when we have needed it most. It appears regularly when we're together.

When Mama's remaining five octogenarian sisters came from Dobson, North Carolina, to visit the summer after her death, we went to Hurley Park after lunch. As we sat in the gazebo remembering Mama, a beautiful red bird hovered about the shrubs nearby.

Pattie and I went to Arizona this spring for R&R. As we sat on the hotel terrace, we enjoyed the beautiful view of open spaces, cactus, tumbleweeds, boulders, jack-rabbits, wrens, a family of wild pigs—and a single red bird. It sat in a nearby bush, eventually coming near to dance at our feet. Pattie and I exchanged glances, then looked down to enjoy her presence and performance and said simultaneously, "Hey, Mama."

Soon after Mama died, I was sharing the details of her death and the timely visit of the red bird with my best friend, Barbara. She became excited and eagerly offered, "You have got to read this book, 'The Gift of the Red Bird' by Paula D'Arcy!"

Pattie and I reread this book frequently—and each timeÉwe remember Mama.

Gail Kimball lives in Salisbury.





Comments (2)

What do you think? Post your comment below.

Comments (2)

Title:


Comment:


(Optional) Your Name:


captcha 78acbab8610045f6be25ea5016c6a563
Enter text seen above:


SalisburyPost.com is pleased to offer readers the ability to comment on stories. We expect our readers to engage in lively, yet civil discourse.

SalisburyPost.com does not edit user submitted statements and we cannot promise that readers will not occasionally find offensive or inaccurate comments posted in the comments area.

Responsibility for the statements posted lies with the person submitting the comment, not SalisburyPost.com.

If you find a comment that is objectionable, please use the report abuse button at the bottom of each post and we will review it for possible removal.

Please be reminded, however, that in accordance with our Terms of Use and federal law, we are under no obligation to remove any third party comments posted on our website.

Paula
Red Birds : Tuesday, May 13, 2008 4:16 AM

Guess what book I am heading out to buy today: 'The Gift of the Red Bird'! I first noticed a red bird outside of my kitchen window a few months after my aunt died. The bird was 'visiting' the flowers I had planted in honor of my grandmother.
Report Abuse

Kathy Goodman Tolbert
Mama and the red bird : Sunday, May 11, 2008 5:13 AM

I too believe that this was some kind of sign from Gail and Pattie's mother..A sign that everything would be alright and a very special way to remember that their mama would always be with them. My sister past away in 1999 with cancer, she loved butterflies, so everytime my mother and I see a butterfly (especially the first one in Spring) we smile and think of her working in her flower gardens with the butterflies landing nearby to get the sweet nectar from her beautiful flowers.
Report Abuse

Other Headlines
Time to spruce up the house
Posted on Thursday, July 03, 2008 12:17 PM

Garden Game: Cabbages
Posted on Thursday, July 03, 2008 2:19 PM

Zebras to butterflies: Katie French reflects on life with Ringling Bros.
Posted on Thursday, July 03, 2008 2:18 PM

Shinn column: No vacation from work of mission
Posted on Thursday, July 03, 2008 2:18 PM

Discovery Place hosts 'A Day in Pompeii'
Posted on Thursday, July 03, 2008 8:23 AM

Gladys Knight, B.B. King in Biltmore summer concerts
Posted on Thursday, July 03, 2008 8:22 AM

Arts and entertainment briefs
Posted on Thursday, July 03, 2008 8:18 AM

Spotlight on Miss Tess and the Bon Ton Parade
Posted on Wednesday, July 02, 2008 9:26 PM

WALL-E revels in robot love
Posted on Thursday, July 03, 2008 8:11 AM

Arts leaders recognized
Posted on Thursday, July 03, 2008 8:12 AM

 


Daily Deals

Today's Newspaper Ads

Announcements | Automotive & Vehicles | Community | Home Improvement & Gardening | Real Estate & Rentals | Services | Apparel & Jewelry | Business & Finance | Dining & Entertainment | Medical | Recreation | Shopping

Today's Classified Ads

Announcements| Auction | Employment | Farm & Garden | Financial Services | Manufactured Housing | Merchandise For Sale | Real Estate | Rentals | Service Guide | Transportation

Website Forms

Birth Announcement | Birthdays | Business News | Celebrations Forms | Employee News | Feedback | Graduations | Hold your paper delivery | Letter to the Editor | Mailing List | Sponsorship | Worship directory submission

Special Sections

A Day In The Life
Autos Only Baby of the Year
Biotech 101
Bridal Page
Celebrations
Explorer
Faith 4th
Living Here
NC Statewide Classified Line Ad Network
Pops at the Post
Prime Time
Spring Home Improvement
Summer Fun
Taste of Home
Worship Directory

View All