Get along little dogies yippie hi ho cayay! The
place was a sea of straw cowboy hats, sheriffs badges, red bandanas and people
drinking sarsaparilla out of glasses shaped like boots.
Saturday was a day of cowboys and can-can girls, horses and
chuckwagon food, square dancing, games and entertainment, all with a Western theme, for
more than 100 mentally challenged people who live in homes run by the United Methodist
Agency for the Retarded (UMAR).
The event at Centenary United Methodist Church on N.C. 150
between Mooresville and Salisbury is officially called the annual Ken Shinn-UMAR Fun Day.
It is sponsored by UMAR in honor of the deceased husband of Carolyn Shinn of Concord.
UMAR was founded in 1983 as a non-profit agency dedicated
to providing residential services for adults with developmental disabilities. UMAR
currently staffs and operates 19 homes across western North Carolina, from Asheville to
Winston-Salem.
But nobody was thinking about those things at the Western
fun day; they had too much else to do and see. A black and white wood cutout of a cow
decorated with a sunflower set the mood as you drove into the church parking lot.
A horse trailer stood at the far end and a shelter marked
Watering Hole provided a shady place to sit and drink the sarsaparilla or
watch a sheep and a couple of goats duke it out in a pen. A wagon wheel leaned against
bales of straw topped with pots of red petunias and a small stuffed fox.
The general store was a busy place, a large mural in front
of which everybody got to have their pictures taken by volunteers in straw hats or
flounced skirts. Just before lunch a man in a wheelchair tipped his straw hat toward his
lap as he studied two Polaroid shots of himself. By now the aroma of burgers on the grill
and potatoes in the fryer began to fill the air.
But lunch wasnt quite ready yet, and the most popular
spot by far was the barn dance inside the church hall. Bales of hay provided both
decoration and a place to sit while a cowboy with an electric guitar sang, Im
41 years old and I aint got no place to go.
Some people danced; some stood around drinking more
sarsaparilla. A couple of people tried riding the wood sawhorses with saddles
that were probably more successful as decoration than entertainment.
The real horses outside got hot and had to take a break in
the shade under some trees.
At least one cowboy didnt need a horse anyhow. He
demonstrated his roping skills by lassoing the bulls heads attached to bales of hay.
Not real bulls heads. Real hay though.
Reality slipped into the festivities for just a minute when
a can-can dancer in a red dress came out of the dance hall calling, Mom, your pager
beeped. Almost everybody ignored it and just kept on drinking that sarsaparilla,
smelling the burgers and smiling.
In addition to the residents of the UMAR homes, family
members, including lots of kids, joined the party, and about 30 volunteers helped with
food and activities. Many of them came from Centenary United Methodist Church, but other
Methodist churches in the Salisbury district also sent volunteers.
Wearing cowboy hats, of course.